Circles Of Love
While the most important aspect of your ring is that it is one you absolutely love, it's also important to shop wisely.
A time comes when you simply know you are with "the one." The question then becomes just a matter of when, where and how. When will he ask? Where will he ask? How will he ask?
There are as many delightful stories of proposals as there are couples. Some simple, some elaborate, but each with its own special meaning. And it is much the same for the engagement ring . some simple, some elaborate, but each with its own special meaning for the bride and groom-to-be.
Often a man will want to surprise his intended with an engagement ring. In many cases, however, the couple will discuss the style and type of the ring she would like to have ahead of time.
In choosing your ring, keep in mind that only three people need to be involved - you, your fiancé and your jeweler. Discuss your feelings with your fiancé, being honest and realistic about the size, cost and style.
An engagement ring can be the traditional diamond solitaire, or you can select from an array of stones such as sapphires, emeralds or rubies, particularly popular for second marriages. Many brides-to-be opt for a combination of a diamond and another gem, her birthstone, perhaps. Some couples choose their stone or stones first and then select a mounting, or have one custom designed. Heirloom pieces can also be reset or redesigned.
Should you decide to shop for a traditional diamond, you will quickly become aware of the "4 C's" - Color, Cut, Clarity and Carat. A reputable jeweler will help you to fully understand their meaning in detail and suggest a ring that is perfect for you.
Whether you and your fiancé decide on a diamond or a different engagement stone, you will want to get a written guarantee on the ring and have it registered. Ask your jeweler for a written certification of the stone's grade and identity. Also, have the ring appraised by an independent appraiser.
Finally, remember that there is great potential to lose a ring somewhere between the jeweler and the altar. Don't wait another minute to have your ring insured. This goes for the wedding bands as well. After all, any tears you shed at this wonderful time should be happy ones!
Keep the Sparkle in Her Eyes . With a Sparkle on Her Hand!
Now that your special guy is ready to take the big step, he'll want to give you a token of his love. A diamond ring is the traditional engagement gift, and while some women like colored gems, and others would be happy with a plain gold wedding band, most are going to want to show off that crystal-clear dazzle that means "I'm getting married!"
If he knows your tastes and wants to surprise you, he should visit an established jeweler, who can help him select or design the perfect ring. If he's not sure what you might like, he may do better taking you window shopping to give you a chance to "hint" at what would make you happy, including the type of setting you prefer. So play along. Once he has the right idea, the rest is up to him, and you can enjoy wondering when and how the "surprise" will come about.
Or, he may ask for your hand and let you decide what you want him to put on it. In any case, be aware that a diamond is an investment, and this is one area where you don't want to skimp. Work with your jeweler to learn what you need to look for, beginning with what are known as "The Four C's."
Cut —
Many shapes and textures are available to the diamond shopper. The standard cuts are brilliant or round, oval, marquise, pear, heart, and emerald, in addition to more modern designs such as princess and cushion cuts.
Color —
There are some "fancy" colored diamonds, but most are clear or show just a tinge of tint. Generally speaking, the less color there is, the greater the value of the stone.
Clarity —
Diamonds with few or no imperfections are the most desirable and valuable. Your jeweler can explain the different diamond "grades" based on both color and clarity, which can be determined by viewing through a microscope or jeweler's loupe.
Carat —
A unit of weight for precious stones, the number of carats will affect the size of the diamond. But keep in mind that a large stone is not necessarily best. The cut, color and clarity actually are more important when assessing the value of the diamond.